Archive for December, 2007

For Good Food & Service, Don’t Go to Chef Donatello

faith| December 28, 2007 4:15 pm

On our last day at the office, my friends and I decided to go to Chef Donatello at SM Megamall for lunch.  It was the only restaurant that wasn’t full.  Unfortunately, there was a valid reason it wasn’t full.  It was the worst eating experience I’ve had for a long time now.  It’s a fast food Italian resto where all of the waiters and cashiers were untrained.  I would’ve willingly shelled out big dough at Italianni’s had I known the horror we would go through.

First off, 4 of my friends at the end of the line were offered a seat already assuring them that their “specialist” would just handle their orders.  I consider that discrimination since the three of us at the start of the line had to queue to the cashier to pay for our orders.  When it was my turn, they didn’t have any change for a 500 bill and informed me that the change would be given once my order was served.  Those who made their orders through the specialist, however, had to wait for a full 15 minutes to get their orders which included soup that was just at the counter and salad that didn’t need any cooking.  One officemate ordered ceasar’s salad but the specialist returned to him asking him if he would prefer the chef’s salad because the cashier mistakenly punched it instead.  She even went on babbling that it tasted better.  We all looked at her like she was from another planet and reminded her that he wanted ceasar’s salad and that the cashier can remedy her mistake.  The salad was served without dressing and when my friend inquired whether it was already dressed, the waiter told him that he had to choose the dressing. This was of course several minutes already since it was served.  My other officemate, on the other hand, was informed 15 minutes later that the pesto was not available and had to change his order to hamburger with fries.  His order came another 15 minutes later but was changed to herb and spice without his permission — I guess they forgot he changed his order to a hamburger.  Except for tacky comments and a lot of laughter, we let it go and knew we would not make the mistake of eating there again.

The restaurant’s biggest mistake happened to me.  We had been there for almost an hour and we left in a hurry.  On the way back, I remembered I missed my change because I noticed I did not have smaller bills in my wallet.  I returned to the cashier asking her if she had given me my change already.  She smiled and told me it was with the waiter.  The waiter came to me taking out my change from his pocket.  I was fuming mad and screamed at all of them to just close shop for the love of God.  I was about to hurl more damaging words except that the cashier seemed almost ready to cry and everyone of their patrons were staring at us.

Since I told you my worst eating experience, let me tell you about the best one I had recently.  There is this small restaurant in Pasig City called Cafe Juanita that serves the most delicious food and provides the most exquisite service I have had.  We were a group of 12, yet when our drinks arrived, the waiter did not have to ask where each drink belonged.  He served the drinks like he could read it on our foreheads.  My table was a little wobbly and another waiter came to me asking if it was moving.  I said it was ok since it was not bothering me.  He dismissed my response and came back to remedy the situation as soon as possible.  One of our entrees was sinigang na maya maya.  After 5 minutes, a waiter returned to us with the sinigang broth in a small cup requesting that we taste the broth so the chef can make adjustments if we wished.  I’ve eaten in some 5-star hotels that can’t even match this service. 

Now, how does that compare with the first experience I narrated?  I know that Chef Donatello is a fast food joint.  But since their food cost almost twice as McDonald’s, I was expecting better.  Besides, I never had that experience in any fastfood restaurant.  Until now, I can still feel the angry heat that went all the way up to my head.  It’s a good thing the year is almost ending.  I would not want that to be a preview of what 2008 would be like for me.  By the way, I forgot to tell you, the “specialist” at Chef Donatello also approached our table to ask if we had a senior citizen’s card.  Trust me, I was the youngest at 38 but none of us on that table looked anywhere beyond 50 years old.  Happy New Year to all!

Badminton Anyone?

faith| December 27, 2007 2:58 pm

The only thing I don’t like about the holidays is my vacation from our weekly badminton games.  Yes, you can call me a badminton addict.  But I’m not one of those addicts who play daily or stay at the courts until 11pm until they’re too tired to even walk.  I remember during our few days training for a tournament seeing men and women at the badminton courts playing enthusiastically when it was already just over an hour before midnight.  I look at them and wonder if they have a wife or husband or kids waiting for them at home.  If I were the wife, I’d throw all his belongings as soon as he arrives and suggest he find out if the badminton court would take in bedspacers or tenants.  Except for the 3-day training I had, I only stay until 8pm at the badminton court at least once or at most twice a week.  I enjoy the game, but I wouldn’t sacrifice my time with the kids for it.  I consider it a regular exercise that I I try not to miss out on as much as possible.  My week wouldn’t be complete if I haven’t played at least one game of badminton.

What is it about the game that is addictive anyway? For me, it’s the fast pace play that really gets me.  You need to have fast reflexes physically and mentally.  Even if I don’t win all the time, the challenge really gives me a high.  I forget everything else when I’m playing — my job, my personal responsiblities, my fears, and my disappointments.  It’s just me, my partner, my opponents, and the shuttlecock.  It’s the best stress reliever I have (I get the opportunity to hit my boss with the shuttle without losing my job).  And if there’s anything I really spend on for myself, it’s my badminton gear.  I currently use a Prince high flex Oversized racquet while I alternately use my Adidas with my Victor badminton shoe.  One of these days, I’m hoping that I can already afford to buy a top of the line Yonex racquet.

For those who haven’t tried it yet, give it a go.  Trust me, it’s not the same game that you see kids playing on the street.  It’s considered the fastest racquet sport there is.  And even if you’re not fast enough, the exercise you get for trying to become fast enough is the best cardio exercise there is.

Dirty Sexy Money

faith| December 26, 2007 4:32 pm

ABC’s new television series, Dirty Sexy Money, premiered in September 2007 delighting audiences with the absurd lifestyle of the rich and famous.  The show presents the life of Nick George, an idealistic lawyer lured to take his father’s job as the personal lawyer of one of New York’s richest families, the Darlings.  Peter Krause plays Nick, who swore never to follow his absentee father’s footsteps and become a slave to the Darlings but ended up eating his words after his father died in a plane crash.  Tripp Darling, the family patriarch, offers the job to Nick for a whopping US$10 million a year for his charity works over and above his regular salary.  Nick justifies accepting the job with the charity money and the chance to discover the circumstances surrounding his father’s mysterious death.

However, being the Darling’s personal lawyer not only entailed handling the family’s legal affairs but also babysitting Tripp’s 5 children.  Babysitting meant getting the kids out of jail, paying ransom to blackmailers for sex tapes, arranging birthday parties, and even giving advice.  The eldest of the Darling children is Patrick (played by William Baldwin), the incumbent attorney general, who is also running for the Senate.  I found Patrick to be the funniest of all the children because of the irony of his situation.  William Baldwin plays the role perfectly as the distinguished eldest son with a big secret.  The big secret made me laugh so hard when I found out in the pilot episode because it involved a mistress who had a voice deeper than Patrick’s.  Patrick’s dilemma is how to keep his transexual mistress under wraps while he is running for the Senate.

I’m not sure what it is about the show that got my interest.  Maybe it’s the unusual lifestyle I never even imagined or the idea that rich people had bigger problems than me.  I was shocked when the youngest children (fraternal twins), Jeremy & Juliet,  held one of their parties spending more than US$10 million.  The location of Jeremy’s party was held on the Brooklyn Bridge which had to be shut off from traffic.  Despite the extravagant celebration, it still ended with Jeremy drunk and singing “All by Myself” while he dangerously trodded on one of the beams of the bridge on the brink of falling off.  Could the filthy rich really be sadder than us normal people?  Most likely.  Like Jeremy, the second child, Karen, had been divorced three times and botched her 4th wedding with a whirlwind annulment which was done 25 minutes after the wedding ceremony.  Apparently, Karen can buy anything she wants, except the love of Nick, her childhood sweetheart who is now happily married.

Another thing that makes the series a hit is its blatant representation of the power of money.  We normal honest working folks always have the pride to say that our value and worth does not have a price.  Can that be true?  Even if Nick insists that he does the job to be able to help more people with his charity funds, is it certain that he is not motivated by the seduction of power and money?  If I was offered a ridiculous sum of money, would I turn it down just to pride myself in thinking that I do not work for a family who flaunt their wealth and use their power for their selfish gains?  Or will I find an excuse to take the job like Nick?

If only to find out how unfair the world is and how ridiculous and absurd the wealthy can be, I suggest you go and watch the show.  I did enjoy it regardless of the inequity in the world it represents.

You Think You’re Ugly? You’re In.

faith| December 17, 2007 5:00 pm

If you think the only person who believes you’re goodlooking is your mother, think again.  On December 1, 2007, people with characters and personalities lined up to audition at Ugly NY — a modeling agency that claims to embrace real people.  The agency has been in search for new faces, but not beautiful ones.  According to an agency spokesperson, “it’s the twinkle in the eyes and the character” that they want.  You don’t need a perfect body, flawless skin, long legs, or deep-set eyes.  You can be overweight, short, bald, or wrinkled.  If you have the personality and the chutzpah, they will sign you as a contract model.  The Ugly Rage Models was founded in 1969 in London and is known to be the best character agency in the world.  Now, Simon Rogers is establishing the same agency in New York that specialize in striking but non-traditional models.

The agency’s website at www.ugly.org features special categories such as thugs, x-files, weefolk, bikers, etc. Rogers found one of his newest models recently by approaching an overweight Hawaiian man he thought had a great look.  The man laughed in his face, but soon found himself on the cover of a magazine. The agency, which opened in June, has already scored high profile gigs for its models, including ad campaigns with Levi’s jeans, Nike, Nokia, a VH1 promotion for the video game “Air Guitar” and a video clip for Jerry Seinfeld’s “Bee Movie.”

So, what do you think?  Have we all grown tired of the skinny and perfect supermodels?  Tired or not, this new trend in advertising is refreshing and funny.  Maybe the world finally realized that the real thing may not look better, but it definitely feels better if it brings a smile to our face.

Do You Have the Disease to Please?

faith| December 14, 2007 4:59 pm

Hi, I’m a People Pleaser. That would be my first line as soon as I put up People Pleaser Anonymous. I’ve always known myself to be one. What I didn’t know was that it’s a syndrome discussed in Psychology. How do you know if you are one? Well, I will enumerate below the People Pleaser Pattern.

1) You have trouble saying “No.”

2) You do things for other people but almost never ask anyone to do things for you.

3) You think of other people’s needs before your own.

4) You rarely do something for yourself and feel guilty once you do.

5) You always hold back on saying what you feel or think for fear of hurting someone.

6) You are easy to get along with and often accomplish so many things, even those that aren’t your responsibility.

7) You constantly worry about what people say or think about you.

The list is actually longer, but I will just limit it to those above. Since I have known for years that I am a people pleaser, I’ve tried to get out of it for a while now. When I was younger, I don’t even get angry no matter what the circumstances. Now, I don’t hold back as much as I used to. But I still feel guilty sometimes when I lose my temper so I know I am not totally cured. At least, I am not afraid of confrontation anymore and have made several in the past years especially when I know I have been wronged even if I’ve kept my place.

I still choose my words well. However, if I already feel close to the person, I tend to be tackless and insensitive sometimes. That’s better than being overly sensitive. What I have trouble dealing with is when people do special things for me. I have always been an independent person and have trouble asking for help. It’s not because I feel I am not worth it. I have already developed my self-esteem through the years, though unstable sometimes. I just fear assuming that some things were really meant for me when in truth they are not. Blame it on pride which I’ve hoarded a lot of.

Psychologists say that people pleasers were raised in homes where their needs and feelings were undervalued. Or as children, they were expected to respond and take care of other people’s needs before their own. They also say that most women have a natural degree of people pleasing in them. For males, only those who identified most to their Mom’s have it in them.

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Christmas is Almost Here

faith| December 7, 2007 11:37 am

The cold breeze that hit my face when I stepped out this morning made me shiver slightly as I rushed out early to avoid traffic.  Even while I walked hurriedly, I could feel that tiny smile at the corners of my lips, knowing that everything around me now smells and feels like Christmas.  I feel like a little kid again waiting excitedly for Christmas night to find out what surprises await me.  I also can’t wait to see the look on everyone’s face as they open the presents I got for them.  I believe Christmas is that time of year that God created to show us the reason why we work so hard or endure the hustle and bustle of life.  It is also the time of year when the kid in me is allowed to come out without any inhibition.  What can I say . . . I am a Christmas person.

More than the presents I will get, what I really love about Christmas are the presents I give everyone.  Shopping and picking each one out gives me a real high.  It’s funny however that on my first christmas shopping spree 2 days ago, my wallet was stolen.  Too much excitement has its hazards.  It didn’t bring me down though.  Picking up from everything I read in “The Secret,” I just believed that my wallet will be returned to me the next day (without the money of course).  I needed all my ids and there are a lot of items in my wallet that were priceless to me for their sentimental value.  True enough, someone called the office yesterday telling me someone found my wallet and returned it to the security office.  Consider this my warning to everyone this Christmas season.  Be careful and don’t get too excited while shopping.

By the way, I decided to get an Xbox 360 for the kids this Chrismas . . . okay, it’s for me too :-).  I have already calculated my budget and it will fit — everything fits.  This will be a great Christmas.  How about you?  Have you made your Christmas list yet? Joyeux Noel . . . Feliz Navidad . . .Merry Christmas . . . Maligayang Pasko!

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